-What made you so sad about him?
-His loneliness. He is a sad guy.
-Did you feel sad?
-No, I felt horny.
-So sadness for him but not sadness for yourself. Maybe you did feel sadness because you were with the man you didn´t really want to be with.
-Are you saying that when I was fucking him I was actually fucking you?
-Don´t flatter yourself.
-Well it´s not really a compliment. I think it seems more like "Look what you are missing Paul, you coward, you idiot"
He is damn right sweetheart
I´ve been there.
But you are not punishing them...
you are punishing yourself.